Why so many business owners reach this point—and why the real problem usually isn’t the team.
“Andy… do you know what?”
“Sometimes I think I’d be better off going back to being self-employed.”
“Life was easier then.”
“I probably made just as much money.”
“I certainly had fewer headaches.”
“Now I’ve got a team, more turnover than I’ve ever had… and everything still comes back to me.”
If you’ve ever thought something similar, you’re not alone.
I’ve heard versions of that sentence from business owners with five employees, twenty employees and businesses turning over several million pounds.
On the surface, it sounds as though employing people was the mistake.
It sounds like growing the business has made life harder instead of easier.
In my experience, though, that’s almost never the real problem.
The Entrepreneur’s Ladder
I often describe business ownership as climbing a ladder.
We all start in roughly the same place.
As students.
We learn.
We make mistakes.
We absorb knowledge.
Eventually we become employees.
We’re taught how to do a job, follow instructions, work with other people and contribute to someone else’s business.
For some people, that’s enough.
For others, one day something changes.
They think:
“Do you know what? I could do this better than my boss.”
So they become self-employed.
The clue is in the title.
They’re still employed.
They’re just employed by themselves.
At first, it’s brilliant.
Nobody tells them what to do.
If they work harder, they earn more money.
If they make a decision, they don’t need anyone else’s permission.
Life feels simpler.
Then something wonderful happens.
They’re good at what they do.
Customers recommend them.
The phone rings more often.
The diary fills up.
Eventually, they can’t cope on their own anymore.
So they employ someone.
Then another.
Then another.
Without really noticing, they’ve climbed onto the next rung of the ladder.
They’ve become a manager.
And this is where I see more businesses struggle than almost anywhere else.
Nobody Ever Teaches You This Bit
The problem isn’t employing people.
The problem is that almost nobody teaches you how to make the transition from self-employed to manager.
We’re taught how to do a job.
We’re taught how to work hard.
Some people even study business.
But very few people are ever taught how to lead people, build systems, make decisions through others or create a business that doesn’t depend on them.
They’re completely different skills.
The abilities that made you successful as a self-employed person are not the abilities that make you successful as a business owner.
As a self-employed person, success comes from doing great work yourself.
As a business owner, success comes from building an environment where other people can do great work without constantly relying on you.
They’re completely different jobs.
Yet most owners are expected to figure that out on their own.
The Problem Behind the Problem
This is where I think many owners accidentally get stuck.
The business grows.
The turnover grows.
The team grows.
But the owner never stops being the centre of everything.
Every difficult customer still comes back to them.
Every important decision still needs their approval.
Every question still lands on their desk.
Every problem still becomes their responsibility.
The business hasn’t grown beyond the owner.
It’s simply become a much bigger version of the job they already had.
That’s why I hear people say:
“Sometimes I think I’d be better off going back to being self-employed.”
Not because employing people was a mistake.
Because nobody ever showed them how to stop being self-employed and start becoming a business owner.
One Business Owner’s Story
One client reached exactly that point.
His business had grown steadily over the years.
He had a good team.
Plenty of work.
A successful reputation.
From the outside, everything looked exactly as it should.
From the inside, it was exhausting.
Every decision still came back to him.
His managers constantly looked to him for answers.
The business simply couldn’t function without him being involved in almost everything.
He genuinely questioned whether growing the business had actually made life better.
As we worked together, it became clear that his people weren’t the problem.
The business had never been taught how to operate without him.
We introduced clear responsibilities.
Regular one-to-ones.
Meaningful performance measures.
Decision-making principles.
A proper management structure.
Gradually the questions stopped coming back.
Managers became confident enough to make decisions.
The business became stronger because it no longer depended on one person.
Today I often joke that he’s almost unemployed.
Of course he isn’t.
He’s finally doing the job he wanted when he started the business in the first place.
He goes into work because he chooses to.
Not because the business can’t survive without him.
Climbing the Next Rung
Manager isn’t the top of the ladder.
The next step is becoming a business owner.
That’s the point where you stop running the business and start building a business that can successfully run without depending on you every minute of every day.
Above that comes investor.
Someone who uses successful businesses to create wealth.
Above investor sits entrepreneur.
Someone whose ability to build successful businesses becomes so trusted that other people ask them to invest on their behalf.
Every step up the ladder requires a different way of thinking.
The mistake most owners make is trying to climb the next rung using the skills that made them successful on the previous one.
That almost never works.
What If You’re Wrong About The Problem?
If you’ve ever caught yourself saying:
“Sometimes I think I’d be better off going back to being self-employed.”
Ask yourself one question.
Was employing people really the mistake…
…or have you simply never been shown how to make the transition from self-employed to business owner?
Because they’re not the same thing.
And in my experience…
They rarely are.
The goal was never to build a business that gave you another job.
The goal was to build a business that gave you a choice.
One Question Before You Go
If you disappeared from your business for four weeks…
Would it continue to improve…
…or would it simply survive until you came back?
Your answer will probably tell you which rung of the Ladder you’re standing on.
If you’re not sure, that’s exactly what my Business Bottleneck Review is designed to uncover.
By Andy Walter
Business Adviser | Executive Coach | Leadership Coach
The problem you can see is rarely the problem holding your business back.
Discover the problem behind the problem.
Start with the Business Bottleneck Review.
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